According to my ipod app, I should have my birth plan written and my bags packed just about now... just in case of early onset labour. I haven't but now is as good a time as any to start thinking about what I need.
My memories of my time in hospital (including a day and a half after the birth) is all a bit of a blur so its hard for me to remember what I found useful and what I didn't bother using. I can't even remember whether there was anything I really felt I was lacking and then wished I had taken with me. Mr. B's memory is just as blurry.
I have read all of the standard lists from all of the mummy websites that include the following:-
For labour
For baby
For the ward
Now, here's the thing. I need your input for things that really don't matter AND for those little pieces of genius that you just couldn't have survived without. Here's a few ideas of things people told me last time (and I now totally agree with, even if I ignored them the first time around)...
My memories of my time in hospital (including a day and a half after the birth) is all a bit of a blur so its hard for me to remember what I found useful and what I didn't bother using. I can't even remember whether there was anything I really felt I was lacking and then wished I had taken with me. Mr. B's memory is just as blurry.
I have read all of the standard lists from all of the mummy websites that include the following:-
For labour
- Snacks and drinks
- labour aids such as a TENS machine, music, massage oil or a birth ball
- fully-charged camera
- hair-ties
- birthing shirts or loose-fitting t-shirts
For baby
- nappies
- cotton wool
- two or three vests and body suits
- a blanket
- scratch mitts and hat (although I dispensed with both on my midwives' advice)
For the ward
- breastfeeding nighties and bras
- breast pads
- disposable briefs
- hairbrush
- dressing gown and slippers
- shampoo and facewash
- toothpaste and toothbrush
- A change of outfit for going home
- Cash (or credit card these days) for phoning home if mobile's aren't permitted
Now, here's the thing. I need your input for things that really don't matter AND for those little pieces of genius that you just couldn't have survived without. Here's a few ideas of things people told me last time (and I now totally agree with, even if I ignored them the first time around)...
- Energy drinks for you and your birth partner during labour
- A sponge scourer for cleaning the bath - shared hospital baths can have some hidden surprises (cobwbebs in my case)!
- A small cup for pouring water over an episiotomy wound when going to the toilet to reduce the sting of the urine
- Vaseline to put on baby's bottom to prevent maconium sticking to their skin